a bit of a tangy-tingy taste of life...that's what my life is all about...well...you don't get to realize how sweet or sour your life could get when you don't even have the guts to taste it..live on...dream on...lax..Ü
those were the days i felt smiling all the time... it's a way-to-cool experience having fun with friends...
it's a once-in-a-lifetime chance of setting your soul on fire and burn every piece of spirit in your heart...
to my batchmates... the tides are high and we're here down low... but as we embark on this unending quest for love- peace- happiness... let us all remember the times that we truly are happy... and those times -undeniably- are with our friends...
Go soaring Batch 2009! Put your hearts aflamed! Let's embrace victory!
"I make the most of what comes and the least of what goes."
Here's a short discussion on break ups...to those people who can somehow relate to this...try to think things over...it's not easy to go on like this...ü
Getting over someone can sometimes appear to be impossible. It feels really bad when you fall in love with someone you can’t have.It feels even worse when you are sure that this relationship can never work out . Five years ago I was ultimately convinced that this is the worst thing that could ever happen to someone.
I believed that forgetting about someone is one of the most hardest things in life , especially if you had this gut feeling that he/she is the one . I used to carry all of these beliefs in mind, until that day, where i went deep into the psychology of falling in love.Those breakups that kept you depressed for years won’t take few weeks or even days before you forget all about them. Getting over someone will be a matter of weeks if not days.
If you think that pain is an essential part of love ,if you think that lovers should suffer then stop reading. However, if you believe that exaggerated attachment is something that hinders you from living happy and if you believe that this pain is unnecessary then keep reading. Breakups won’t hurt like they used, you wont label anybody as the one from now on and recovery is going to take place much faster.
Since I am not a magician, I cant say that one article will do the job, and that’s why you need to go through all of the links below, I know this will take a lot of time, it may even take up half an hour of your time, but remember, the reward is getting rid of this pain that has lasted for years.
You don’t have to read the articles in order but you have to read them all. Read the articles carefully, you don’t have to do it in one day, just make sure you give yourself the time to understand them.
What will happen to you after reading these articles:
1-You will discover that "The One" Concept is a myth 2-You will discover that lots of people can be the one 3-You will discover that being dumped doesn’t mean that you are bad 4-You will become 10 times stronger than before. 5-You will recover from breakups much easier 6-you will never have any problems getting over someone 7-You will know how to get over someone even if you think that you can't forget him
Have you ever heard a song then suddenly found yourself remembering a situation that happened to you years ago? This is called an ANCHOR, which forms when two events keep occurring together until they become one thing in your mind. For example, that song that reminded you of the situation, and the situation itself were anchored together in your mind, and that's why when one of them occurs, you remember the other one automatically.
Anchored to Him!!
Imagine then, what would happen if you kept going to the same places with the same person, if you kept doing the same things over and over together. In the end, this person will become anchored with each of these activities and places, and so as soon as you bump into any of these places, you will unavoidably remember him.
How to Forget About Him?
Forgetting about a previous relationship is very easy. In the case of that old song that constantly reminds you of your partner; by listening to this song while not with your love, you will be gradually removing the effect of that song's association with your breakup, in other words, you're releasing the anchor to your previous relationship. Eventually, you will find yourself not moved in any way when listening to it.
So, if you want to forget about him, just live your life normally without trying to remember him, and as you keep visiting these places without your partner, the anchor will weaken then completely disappear and he will no longer linger in your mind again.
The good news is that you can unlearn them with ease and retake control of your life!
Is the Concept of “The One” true?
Anyone could fill that role: What actually makes you think that this person was “The one” is the sweet experience that you had with him. This experience is associated with that person and stored in your mind as one item, and so you think of both the experience and the person as one thing but actually they are two separate things. If you still aren't convinced, just wait and see what happens the next time you fall in love with someone and share that same sweet experience together. You will just forget about your old love and this new person will become the new "one".
How many "ones" did you have before?: Just take a look at your past and you will discover that each time you fell in love you thought that this person was the one, that whatever happened you wouldn't be able to forget about him and that you won't be able to find someone like him again. What usually happens is that a few months later someone else appears in your life and becomes “the one” and so life goes on.
The psychology of falling in love: As I said before, before you fall in love with someone your mind matches him against certain predefined criteria, if anyone matches these criteria you may end up falling in love with him, but just because someone matched these criteria once and became “The one”, that doesn't mean that no one else can match it. What this actually signifies is that this person is currently the best match but sooner or later a better match could be found.
Is this your first deep love experience? : If this is your first deep love experience, you will most probably believe in that false idea called “The one” more strongly simply because you have never experienced that emotional intensity with someone else before. In that case, you're not really to blame if you thought that he was the one, but the next time you enter a relationship, you will discover that it was the emotional intensity and not the person himself whom you loved.
"It takes a couple seconds to say Hello, but forever to say Goodbye."
Well...you'll be the judge...ü
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On the fifth day of March this year...at the Araneta Coliseum...my type of band is going to perform their acts...
Maroon 5 LiVE!
isn't this cool?! the band that struck Europe and America got its way to us...with songs from cool genres...they swing through every people's nerves...watch out as they try to conquer the Philippine concert stage with this one hell of a show...ü
Wazzup!ü Watch out for 2008's whole new breed of movies...ü
One Missed Call- Whose up for some hair-raising experience ? Here's to start your year right..ü Warner Bros Picture brings us "One Missed Call"...ü Sounds familiar right?! Did the japanese pipz started this? or was i dreaming? lolz... this film portrays a terrifying chain of people receiving missed call and the next thing they realize is that they're already at the edge of life and death...ü ooohh...pretty scary...i guess...and why would it end up with a 2/10 rating...ü
In the Name of the King: A Dungeon Siege Tale- A story of a man who fought for his village from a nasty pack of goons...ah..i mean beasts that get orders from an evil sorcerer..in their attempt to dethrone the majesty...they face the wrath and fury of this peace-loving peasant...ü ain't this cool?
The Eye- Have you seen the Jap version of this film? well..if you did..then this is its English version...haha...lol...ehem...the story revolves around a girl who used to be blind...to be able to see the colors of this world...she went through a surgery and then on...she was able to see...what do you thinc that surgery brought her?! duh?!...ü anyway...she never realized what she's up to until she starts to see unusual things...want to know what she's seeing?? well...better watch out for it...ü and by the way...Jessica Alba is the star of this film...another must see...ü
Jumper- i guess you've seen the trailer already...And i bet you like it..huh?ü a teenager possess an extraordinary ability to teleport..any place at anytime...and it's genetic...though someone sees to it that they are exterminated...they tend to survive the cruelty that the world prepared for them...ü http://www.jumperthemovie.com/
So far..those are my"must see" movies for this year...watch out for my next posts for more movies...You can visit ComingSoon.net or themovieblog.com to view more of it...it's complete...thnx for reading...ü
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The midterm exams is almost done...and because of this...a lot of students plan to celebrate and have fun since their burden has been removed...a bit... (final exams are fast approaching though..Ü)...
What are the usual habits of students when it comes to relaxing after a period of hardship and struggle??
Go malling- the most common thing to do to release those negative aura brought by unanswered items during that nasty test...
Go to the beach- who would never crave for a relaxing stroll along the seashore with the soft touch of sand and the vibrant sound of gushing waves??
Eat a feast- ahh...a sumptuous dinner would be a brilliant reward for someone who sacrificed a lot of calories just to finish reviewing...hmmmm...and a glass of the finest wine to top it up...
Play games- may it be a ball game or simply a computer game that you love...as long as your heart's on it...then it's the perfect reward for you...
Go on a date- spent quality time with your partner and do things that you both love to do...after all...it's a priceless reward seeing your partner happy with you...isn't it?? just disregard your expenses though...Ü
And more...What do you have in mind?? How do you reward yourself after exams?? Whatever stuff you have in mind...the important thing is that you do this to break the silence brought by your major exams...well...as long as you and your friends enjoy it...then...i don't see any problem upon doing it...but just be sure that no one will be offended or be affected by your actions...Ü
Afterall...what's enjoying for if not everyone gets along?!Üü
Hello everyone! Let me welcome you to a paradise of tranquil environment and a touch of a relaxing and refreshing zest of life...Ü The following posts on this page will tackle most of the things that matter most in one's life...a pinch of peace- a spoonful of serenity- an ounce of faith- a tickle of love...well...most of it i guess...basically...anything and everything under the sun...just feel free to drop by anytime of the day...read...be informed...be heard(comments are appreciated)...and feel the rejuvenated feeling of youth and life...Ü See ya around!
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"Far away there in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see their beauty, believe in them, and try to follow where they lead." —Louisa May Alcott